Friday, May 18, 2012

Girls Start Early...And Never Change


What's fun about the Internet is the dirt or success stories you can dig up on people you know or knew. I'm sure, you like me, have used the RI Defendant Search form at the Superior Court to spy on your neighbors, old classmates and whatnot. What surprised me about doing that was finding out how many wife beaters there were in my neighborhood over the years.


Really? Wow, I thought he was just a quiet guy who liked to garden a lot.” I caught myself thinking about one man I knew growing up. Guess he wore the face to show the world and a different one inside the house. But we all have that don't we? C'mon...you do it too.


One girl I Googled, who was tormented in our sixth grade class, I found had made it to the top. The last time I saw her was in Miss Mara's class and after that, poof, I never saw her again. I remember her as a good kid and was given to theatrics at times to draw attention to herself.


She, unfortunately was 12 years old then and being a girl, was a time to time target of other 12 year old girl's vile jealousy and tribal behavior.   Matt Groening (the creator of The Simpson's) once had a cartoon that showed grammar school girls at their worst. The title was, The Most Dangerous Thing in the World, A Roving Pack of Eleven Year Old Girls. In the cartoon, a group of girls are encircling another named “Debby.” The taunting girls chant in a sing-song voice, “Cry Debby Cry! Cry Debby Cry! Cry Debby Cry!”


Of course, Debby starts to cry.


Ann, who I'll call this girl I knew in Mara's class, came from a family of some means and could afford to dress their girl in nicer, more fashionable clothing. I remember her wavy Katherine Hepburn hair, her slight buck teeth which she was almost finished growing into, silk scarves and corduroy skirts that were the fashion in 1976. The other girls though, hated her for having any access to such clothing. Lower middle class fashion for those girls consisted of Wrangler jeans, flannel shirts for winter or some pull over top for warmer times. All of which could have been bought at Apex or Ann & Hope in Cumberland. I feel Ann's parents rarely shopped at old mill outlets then.


I can't remember the reason, but as Ms Mara was out of the class (teachers then blew off work and hung out in the coffee room then), the other girls saw their chance to start carping on Ann. Perhaps it was just to start off where they left off. Ann did fight back but it's not easy when seven other girls persecute and verbally abuse your looks, voice, teeth and choice in shoes. Finally, Ann, after giving it back as well as she could, buried her head into her arms on the desk and started bawling.


It was unfair.


This would happen on various occasions throughout the school year. The girls then would find another target they can beat on for a while till they get bored of that and then move on to the next one and back to Ann eventually.


So today, I Googled Ann and I come to find out she was Merrill Lynch's Top Bond Analyst in their headquarters in Manhattan.


Holy Shit girl! Good for you! From JC Potter School all the way to a bond desk in the world's financial capital.


Another chick I Googled from that class (and who enjoyed bashing Ann) has a lengthy record with the Superior Court.


Karma is a bitch!

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