Wednesday, August 13, 2014

WW2 Dads and Table Manners


A friend was telling me his Mom managed to get an entire set of 1930's German Fiesta Ware, piece by piece. His Dad complained because the large dinner plates were just 9 inches in diameter. “My Mom eventually had to get him his own special plate, a cheap Bakelite one that was 12 inches in diameter...to hold all the food he'd pile onto it. Not only that, it had a curved lip to hold any juices in.”

“He would eat entire meatballs. He'd stuff one into his mouth, chew it a few times then swallow it. He'd eat like a goose, just somehow get it down his throat. My Mom made largish golf ball sized ones too.”

“The gravy, God the gravy he'd flood his plate with. I'd watched him slice a huge slab of roast beef and I said to him, 'You going to launch that into that ocean of gravy?'”

“WATCH YOUR MOUTH KID!” he shot back.

My own Dad would mound a Mt Vesuvius pile of mashed potatoes onto his plate, then fill the caldera with a soup ladle's worth of gravy. He vacuumed that down in fair order, before doing it again.

My Mom, being Irish, couldn't cook but she tried. One of her skills included frying cubed potatoes in a pan that had been just used for frying hamburger. The flavor of the ground beef with the addition of more Blue Can Crisco grease would be the two ingredients. The potatoes were portioned out to all of us and after eating his, I saw my Dad get up, take the spatula and try to chisel the pieces and scraps that had stuck to the bottom of the skillet. My brother and I would nearly puke watching him eat those burnt crisps.

Every Sunday, for a while at least, and thank God it ended, we'd have a “real” Sunday dinner. Every Sunday dinner meant eye of round, which to begin with is a fairly lean cut of meat. My Mom thought that incinerating it was the proper way to cook it. My brother and I would be in the den, smelling a real cremation and roll our eyes at one another. Ugh, another travail to overcome, the weekly burnt roast of beef.

Dad, being a Depression Era kid, thought it a great treat. He'd cut the meteoroid himself (it looked like a meteor, smoking and black) and take the end pieces for himself. I'd hear him eating it, crunch, crunch, crunch. My brother and I were lucky enough to get something of the center of that meat, which was more than well done.

I'd use my steak knife to surgically remove the gristle. I thought it loathsome. After a few times, my Dad would wonder why I would cut it out, saying..”that's a good part!” I thought he had to be kidding. Then again, the thought the best part of any beef was the fat. In a way he's right, but gristle?

I shouldn't point fingers at him now, neither can my friend point finger at his Dad. We both were telling stories of what piggish things we each have done with food. I've sat in front of the TV while eating out of the very pot I cooked in, dribbling some of it on my tee shirt. Who cares? I live alone anyway. The dog I had was great for clearing up after me.

I once opined to a friend at work, “Ya know, If I wanted to, I could eat two pizzas, wash it down with canned beer, then shove two cigarettes up my nose and smoke them if I wanted too...who's going to bitch at my table manners?”
My friend said he had that beat. “You know Klondike bars right? Try this. Get two of them, and sandwich in between them a heaping pile of Neopolitan ice cream...you'll need a fork to eat it!”

“Two Klondikes...with MORE ice cream?” I say

“Yep..it's heaven!”

Or one of his favorites. Peanut butter with bacon sandwich. “But you have to FRY the bread slices in bacon fat too”

I ask. “Have you ever had to check yourself in the mirror before going out to the Quickie Mart...check tee shirt for splatters after eating?”

“Yep.”

“Thank God...I ain't alone!”


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